My Followers often ask me why I am not married. Today I want to answer this question and discuss a little on this topic.
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In the past few years, many of my childhood friends and classmates have gotten married and it certainly made me think about my life.
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And I asked myself what was wrong with me? And looking back at the early marriages of my girlfriends, I realized that everything is fine with me, I just don’t agree to compromises. Would I agree to marry any of their husbands, or at least go on a date? Of course not.
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Recently, one of my friends whom I know from early childhood married a guy with whom she did not want to continue dating 5 years ago because she did not really like him. Another one married a few years ago to a abuser guy with whose best friend she also slept. Etc. As you can imagine, this is not about a great unearthly love. Why are they doing that? Easy. Because their relatives put pressure on them, because society expects this from them, because it seems like it’s time.
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Coming back to me, I am not against a serious relationship and even for, but I do not want to date with someone, and even more so to get married, simply because others are getting married or because this is what society expects from me. I want to be in a relationship with someone who really suits me. With whom we mutually love each other. With whom we have common goals and ambitions. It doesn’t have to be a millionaire or a celebrity, but what necessary that he strives for more and we would be a good team. Love, healthy partnership and toxic relationships sex ♥️ Is a key for me.
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What I want to say in conclusion is that I wish everyone to learn to listen to themselves and do what you really love and what makes you happy. Don’t settle for less. Being a woman and a person is not only about having a child and becoming a wife. Life is much bigger and more interesting. Travel, develop, explore the world, earn money! And when you meet someone who really suits you, go ahead!
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Ps sorry for long read.
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Ps2 hope my friends will not read that 😅
